I wanted to post the teaching I did for a woman's training day at our church. It is pretty lengthy as it includes a lot of scripture.
My (un)Redeemed Identity
I wanted to share you with you a little bit of my own journey in trying to discover my identity in Christ.
For most of my life I have identified with being dirty and the word that I could easily pull from at any time was “whore”; those words were seared on my soul at a very young age. I was sexually molested by my grandfather and my father from the age of 4-10. Love was perverted and entangled with misappropriated sexual pleasure. I responded by trying to find an identity in being loved. I believed if I could only be loved, then I would not feel this way. I offered myself willingly to anyone who would take me. I sought love in the men that would continue to make me feel dirty and unworthy to be loved. My entire identity was in my physical appearance and sexuality.
After enduring a tragic event where a friend’s baby girl almost died at the hands of my ex-husband, my identity shifted to survival. I could not depend on anyone, especially a man. I put a plan in place to ensure that I was completely sufficient for my daughter and me. No man was going to interfere with that. This plan included an education and a career and I was determined (at all costs) to accomplish this. I did. I accomplished my goals but I sacrificed much.
I fully identified with sin and suffering and what I thought the consequences of both were. However, not all of the things in which I had put my identity in were necessarily bad things. I identified with being a good mom, a godly wife, a loyal employee, a faithful servant, etc.
We cannot find our identity in anything outside of Jesus Christ. For years, I could and did say that but I had no idea what that meant. If someone were to ask me what exactly that meant, I would not have had an answer other than I’m a Christian. I want to show you today exactly what it means for our Identity to be in Christ.
Imago Dei – Created in God’s Image
In order to understand our redeemed identity, we need to understand God’s desire for creation
Why were we created? To Glorify God
Romans 15:6 that together you may with one voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Psalm 86:12 I give thanks to you, O Lord my God, with my whole heart, and I will glorify your name forever.
1 Corinthians 10:31 So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.
Where did it start?
Creation – Men and Woman were created in the image of God; Equally.
Genesis 1:26-27 - 26Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness...”27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.
Man – created first out of dust
Genesis 2:7 - 7 then the LORD God formed the man of dust from the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living creature.
Woman – Created second, taken out of man
Genesis 2:18; 21-23 - 18 Then the LORD God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” 21 So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. 22 And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man. 23 Then the man said, “This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.”
1 Timothy 2:13 - For Adam was formed first, then Eve
1 Corinthians 11:8-9 - 8 For man was not made from woman, but woman from man. 9 Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man.
The Fall – Distorted Identity
Sin Enters Creation
Genesis 3:1- 6 - 3:1 Now the serpent was more crafty than any other beast of the field that the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God actually say, ‘You shall not eat of any tree in the garden’?” 2 And the woman said to the serpent, “We may eat of the fruit of the trees in the garden, 3 but God said, ‘You shall not eat of the fruit of the tree that is in the midst of the garden, neither shall you touch it, lest you die.’” 4 But the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die. 5 For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” 6 So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate, and she also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate.
Here is our first glimpse into fallen motives with the fruit; idolatry at its core. Adam and Eve chose autonomy over participating in the mission of God – His Glory; we have been doing the same ever since. We chose to satisfy our flesh and our pride at the expense of his glory, the very thing we were created for.
Shame enters creation
Genesis 3:7- 7 Then the eyes of both were opened, and they knew that they were naked. And they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loincloths.8 And they heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden. 9 But the Lord God called to the man and said to him, “Where are you?” 10 And he said, “I heard the sound of you in the garden, and I was afraid, because I was naked, and I hid myself.”
- They realized for the first time they were naked and they hid themselves from God.
- Shame seeks to destroy intimacy and relationship. Shame will always cause us to pull away from God and others.
- Before sin, Adam and Eve experienced life together and in communion with God completely naked.
Creation is Cursed
Genesis 3:16-19 - 16 To the woman he said, “I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you.” 17 And to Adam he said, “Because you have listened to the voice of your wife and have eaten of the tree of which I commanded you, ‘You shall not eat of it,’ cursed is the ground because of you; in pain you shall eat of it all the days of your life; 18 thorns and thistles it shall bring forth for you; and you shall eat the plants of the field. 19 By the sweat of your face you shall eat bread, till you return to the ground, for out of it you were taken; for you are dust, and to dust you shall return.”
The Enemy is Cursed
Genesis 3:14-15 - 14 The Lord God said to the serpent, “Because you have done this, cursed are you above all livestock and above all beasts of the field; on your belly you shall go, and dust you shall eat all the days of your life. 15 I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and her offspring; he shall bruise your head, and you shall bruise his heel.”
Distortions we believe about our identity
- Because of our distorted identity, we often have the wrong lens on when we see God, ourselves, and others.
- We quickly attach ourselves to our shame and out of that we “identify” with our sin or our suffering. This is the enemy’s master plan. As long as we are stuck in shame, we cannot see God rightly and therefore our relationship with him is obscured. The enemy is not interested in bringing us down, his goal (or so he pridefully believes) is to bring God down. He just uses us.
To understand the atoning work of the cross we need to understand why the cross was necessary and why Jesus Christ had to be our savior.
Why did we need a savior?
Hebrews 9:22 Indeed, under the law almost everything is purified with blood, and without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness of sins.
Leviticus 17:11 For the life of the flesh is in the blood, and I have given it for you on the altar to make atonement for your souls, for it is the blood that makes atonement by the life.
In the OT, the law required death for sin; if you sinned (moral sin) the consequence was death and God’s wrath. The old sacrificial system was put in place to deal with unintentional sins (i.e. cleanliness). That system could not atone for intentional sins. If you sinned, death was the consequence. It was not just an earthy penalty or physical death either; it meant an eternal separation from God.
Recently in studying the atonement, I realized that I live post-cross and because of that I know the end of the story. I have no real ability to understand the consequence of sin or any threat of eternal separation of God. Because of this, I realized I often minimize my sin. If I fully understood the full weight of my sin as the OT peeps did; the death of Jesus Christ on the cross would be the most precious gift I could ever expect from God.
Jerry Bridges summarizes it well in The Great Exchange; “Because man sinned, man must bear the penalty of sin, so in addition to being fully God, the mediator must also be fully man in order to bear the sin of man as their representative. Also, the mediator must be a man since the mediation act of atoning for sin requires a sacrificial death, and it is impossible for God to die.” Jerry Bridges
What did Christ accomplish on the cross?
Christ on the cross is synonymous with Atonement. Atonement is defined as the reconciliation of man with God through the life, sufferings, and sacrificial death of Christ. Through the atoning blood of Jesus Chris, a Holy God and sinners were reconciled. There are multiple aspects of the atonement that need to be considered in order to fully realize our identity.
Jesus Christ taking the sinner’s place, bearing the burden of man’s sin and guilt. Christ suffered in our place, accepting the punishment that we rightly deserve. He bore the penalty of human sin on the cross, suffering in the place of the sinner, the just for the unjust, the holy Son of God for the guilty.
Isaiah 53:4-6 - 4 Surely he has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows; yet we esteemed him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted. 5 But he was wounded for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his stripes we are healed. 6 All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned—every one—to his own way; and the LORD has laid on him the iniquity of us all.
Christus Victor is the defeat of Satan and the cancellation of all of the Enemy’s legal rights against us, as well as lies leveled at us through Christ’s victory and authority demonstrated on the cross. The Enemy no longer has a hold on us. One of the biggest lies the Enemy tells the believer is twofold. First, that they have no authority over him and, second, that they fall prey to him, that they are victimized by the lies he tells them.
Colossians 2:12-15 - 12 having been buried with him in baptism, in which you were also raised with him through faith in the powerful working of God, who raised him from the dead. 13 And you, who were dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made alive together with him, having forgiven us all our trespasses, 14 by canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands. This he set aside, nailing it to the cross. 15 He disarmed the rulers and authorities and put them to open shame, by triumphing over them in him.
Hebrew 2:12-17 12 saying, “I will tell of your name to my brothers; in the midst of the congregation I will sing your praise.” 13 And again, “I will put my trust in him.” And again, “Behold, I and the children God has given me.” 14 Since therefore the children share in flesh and blood, he himself likewise partook of the same things, that through death he might destroy the one who has the power of death, that is, the devil, 15 and deliver all those who through fear of death were subject to lifelong slavery. 16 For surely it is not angels that he helps, but he helps the offspring of Abraham. 17 Therefore he had to be made like his brothers in every respect, so that he might become a merciful and faithful high priest in the service of God, to make propitiation for the sins of the people.
Justification - Imputation – Forgiveness and Righteousness (The Great Exchange)
Basically, God takes your filth and in return, he gives you his righteousness. Jesus not only took your curse. He became your curse, and you became his perfected righteousness. There had to be an exchange for a full justification. Once your sin is removed, you still do not have any righteousness of your own. But because of a complete justification, Jesus has given you his righteousness. His righteousness is imputed to you.
2 Corinthians 5:21 - 21 For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.
Propitiation and Expiation
Propitiation is God’s wrath satisfied, the payment of sin accounted for and God’s wrath turned into favor. Expiation is the wiping away of sin. The debt of sin no longer stands against us. The debt is cancelled; the sin is removed.
1 John 2:2 He is the propitiation for our sins, and not for ours only but also for the sins of the whole world.
Romans 3:23-25 23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, 24 and are justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus, 25 whom God put forward as a propitiation by his blood, to be received by faith. This was to show God's righteousness, because in his divine forbearance he had passed over former sins.
Isaiah 61:10 10 I will greatly rejoice in the LORD; my soul shall exult in my God, for he has clothed me with the garments of salvation; he has covered me with the robe of righteousness, as a bridegroom decks himself like a priest with a beautiful headdress, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.
It is the blood of Jesus that cleanses us from sin. We see that it’s the forgiveness of sin that cleanses us from all unrighteousness. The blood removes guilt; the blood removes shame; the blood removes condemnation. The blood removes the filth which is our sin.
1 John 1:7-9 7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus his Son cleanses us from all sin. 8If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. 9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Redemption is to deliver people from bondage. As redemption denotes redeeming someone from captivity like Israel from Egypt, Christ does this through the payment of His blood.
Ephesians 1:7 7 In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace,
Micah 6:4 4 For I brought you up from the land of Egypt and redeemed you from the house of slavery, and I sent before you Moses, Aaron, and Miriam.
Exodus 15:13 13 “You have led in your steadfast love the people whom you have redeemed; you have guided them by your strength to your holy abode.
Deuteronomy 7:8 8 but it is because the Lord loves you and is keeping the oath that he swore to your fathers, that the Lord has brought you out with a mighty hand and redeemed you from the house of slavery, from the hand of Pharaoh king of Egypt.
II Samuel 7:23 23 And who is like your people Israel, the one nation on earth whom God went to redeem to be his people, making himself a name and doing for them great and awesome things by driving out before your people, whom you redeemed for yourself from Egypt, a nation and its gods?
What does the Atonement mean for a Redeemed Identity?
Who has the power to condemn? Surprisingly, most people respond, “Satan,” since condemnation seems to be attached to feeling bad or separated from God. The truth is God is the author of condemnation. Satan does not have the power to condemn.
Romans 8:34 34 Who is to condemn? Christ Jesus is the one who died—more than that, who was raised—who is at the right hand of God, who indeed is interceding for us.
Who was condemned? Condemnation was reserved for Jesus, and it is no longer in existence, for the believer. We see that in 1 John 3:20 that, even when your own heart condemns you, God is greater than your heart. So there is truly no condemnation for you who are in Christ Jesus. Because of what Jesus did on the Cross, as He imputed His righteousness to you as your sin was imputed to Him, it is now as though you never did anything wrong. The wrath of God was poured out on his son and it pleased him (verse?).
Romans 5:18-19 18 Therefore, as one trespass led to condemnation for all men, so one act of righteousness leads to justification and life for all men. 19 For as by the one man's disobedience the many were made sinners, so by the one man's obedience the many will be made righteous.
After Adam and Eve sinned and were shamed in their nakedness, God sacrificed an animal to make a garment of skin to clothe them (Genesis 3:21), as a representation of greater things to come. Now, it is Christ who clothes us (Revelation 18; 1 Peter 2:6). Through his sacrifice and our unity with Him in His death and resurrection, by the Holy Spirit, believing who we are in Him, God promises no shame (Romans 9:33, Romans 10:11; Isaiah 49:23; Joel 2:26-27). Not being shamed comes from, like Jesus, knowing who we are—who God says we are.
Christ was not shamed - The whole epicenter of the Cross was intended to shame Jesus; , from the Centurions beating him, mocking worship, the crown of thorns, and carrying his own Cross, being disrobed, naked and nailed to the Cross. The ungodly threw everything at Jesus to shame Him; Jesus could not be shamed because he knew who he was.
Isaiah 50:6-7 6 I gave my back to those who strike, and my cheeks to those who pull out the beard; I hid not my face from disgrace and spitting. 7 But the Lord God helps me; therefore I have not been disgraced; therefore I have set my face like a flint, and I know that I shall not be put to shame.
Hebrews 12:2 2 looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.
- Despise: To regard as unworthy of one's interest or concern: despised any thought of their own safety.
In Christ, we are not shamed - We no longer have permission to experience shame; If Christ could not be shamed, and Christ is in us, we too cannot be shamed. Just as Christ understood who He was and could not be shamed, if we understand who we are, we cannot be shamed.
Peter 2:6 6 For it stands in Scripture: “Behold, I am laying in Zion a stone, a cornerstone chosen and precious, and whoever believes in him will not be put to shame.”
Joel 2:26-27 26 “You shall eat in plenty and be satisfied, and praise the name of the Lord your God, who has dealt wondrously with you. And my people shall never again be put to shame. 27 You shall know that I am in the midst of Israel, and that I am the Lord your God and there is none else. And my people shall never again be put to shame.
Romans 9:33 33 as it is written, “Behold, I am laying in Zion a stone of stumbling, and a rock of offense; and whoever believes in him will not be put to shame.”
Romans 10:11 11 For the Scripture says, “Everyone who believes in him will not be put to shame.”
Isaiah 49:23 23 Kings shall be your foster fathers, and their queens your nursing mothers. With their faces to the ground they shall bow down to you, and lick the dust of your feet. Then you will know that I am the LORD; those who wait for me shall not be put to shame.”
One of the chief opponents to Christ’s atonement on the Cross-is: believing that you can separate yourself from God because of sin. As we just saw, there is “no condemnation, in the believer,”
Romans 8:31-39 31 What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? 32 He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things? 33 Who shall bring any charge against God's elect? It is God who justifies. 34 Who is to condemn? Christ Jesus is the one who died—more than that, who was raised—who is at the right hand of God, who indeed is interceding for us. 35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword? 36 As it is written, “For your sake we are being killed all the day long; we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered.” 37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, 39 nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.
When you believe that your sin can separate you from God, you are making yourself bigger than God. Your sin is not too big for God or what He did through the Cross of Jesus Christ. You could not pay for salvation. It had to be the God-man Jesus to reconcile man back to God. Simply put, you could not pay for your own sin. You are the one who should have, but the reality is that, in His perfection, the only One who could have paid for sin is Jesus Christ. So, if you could not behave your way to God, how can you possibly think you can behave your way away from Him?
Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
My Redeemed Identity
My redeemed identity is a woman who has been horribly sinned against and has horribly sinned but was cleansed by the blood of my savior and made righteous by his death on the cross. I do not go to shame when I sin or remember details of my past. I do not believe for a moment I have the ability to condemn myself or that the enemy’s lies can condemn me. I do not believe that when I sin or chose not to worship that I am separated in any way from my Lord and Savior.
When I stand confidently in my identity, the overflow is an expression of my biblical femininity and personality. My confidence in Christ allows me to express my biblical femininity. As a godly woman, I have struggled with Proverbs 31, how would I ever compare? The beauty of my identity being in Christ is that I don’t compare and I don’t have to. I don’t have to compare myself to other women either; I am fearfully and wonderfully made! God has given me certain gifts and has called me to certain things. I do not need to read Proverbs 31 and beat myself up that I am not those things.
Because I am not bound in shame, other’s get to experience God’s glory through me. I can speak boldly and confidently to others about Jesus Christ, I can confess my sinful heart and repent in community. My husband is allowed to enjoy and delight in both in my sexuality and in my girly playfulness.
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